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Following is our collection of Approach chat up lines and openingszinnen working better than reddit. They include pickup lines, comebacks, and hugot lines that actually works like the best Tinder openers.

  1. Im like mosquitoes. Even if you hate me i'll approach you until you could see my effort.

  2. Puppies are as cute as the speed of light is fast, but your cuteness threshold approaches that limit.

  3. Permission to approach the bench (or Can I bench you)?

  4. Since distance=velocity x time, let's let velocity or time approach infinity, because I want to run all the way with you.

  5. I'll take you to the limit as x approaches infinity. Even if there wasn't gravity on earth, I'd still fall for you. You must be differentiable, because all I see are smooth curves.

  6. To be used on strangers

    Approach target on either left/ right side the say "Hey do you believe in love at 1st sight?"
    If she says no, do a quick spin around to the other side from her back and say "How about at 2nd sight?"
    Hope this works!

  7. I have a grand strategy for you: do you prefer a top-down or bottom-up approach?

  8. Are you from Tennessee?

    Cause it was very whisky approaching you

  9. Do you want to know how YOU can be less needy when talking to girls?

    How can YOU be more relaxed when talking to girls?

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    When guys start learning game, they have the need to approach a lot and cannot relax. Because they are in their head thinking of the next move, they cannot see the signs of the women.

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    When they approach girls start breeding fast and girls can sense that.

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    They cannot slow down and let go of that tension.

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    One of the key points and that can make a change in your game is to learn to relax (this comes as well with experience and self-awareness).

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    Be aware of how you breed during the interaction and calm down, try to talk slower, you will see it will bring her attraction up.

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    Most guys think that a good player will have all the interactions working great, but this is not the reality, you must accept the fact there is a percentage of approaches that are not fully under your control.

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    For me the biggest change came when I started to let go of trying to control every interaction.

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    The tension comes because you have an agenda behind your approach and its in your head during the all interaction.

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    I am not saying you should not have a plan but don't act like you need something from her.

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    You must feel that you could walk away at any time and you would not be affected by it.

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    Also,

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    I used to think in each interaction there was someone holding a frame.

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    Whoever had the strongest frame was winning the interaction right?

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    NO!

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    There is an ultimate one

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    THE COLLABORATIVE FRAME!

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    Before that I used to go into frame battles trying desperately to win.

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    You think she is shit testing you, she is trying to make you prove yourself.

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    There is another way of perceiving this.

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    Start thinking that everyone is your friend, everyone is on your team.

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    From this place there is NO FRAME battle.

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    There is NOTHING to WIN because there is NOTHING to COMPETE against.

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    If you go into that collaborative frame, then another reality opens to you.

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    Interactions become easy and effortless.

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    You finally can actually relax and enjoy not only more and better results but the entire PROCESS itself.

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    In summary:

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    Learn to relax, talk slower.

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    Accept that Success on approaching is fully under your control.

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    Enjoy the interaction instead of focusing on the outcome but at the same time always keep moving things forward.

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    See the interaction from a Collaborative frame and not COMPETITIVE.

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    DON'T MISS PART 2 ON MY NEXT POST!

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    Hope it was helpful

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    See you on the next one 🤫

  10. Opening line that is working for me in that "no info" situation on Tinder.

    I've always had a tough time with starting a conversation when the profile match is a single picture with no profile info whatsoever-- there's just nothing to go on, nothing to connect to or make a joke about. Whatever I've come up with in the past, I've rarely gotten a reply in that "no info" situation, and I always just sit there befuddled about what to say.

    Last week I matched with a smoking hot girl and just couldn't think of anything to say so I let it linger all day... finally that night I decided on something simple but waited to contact her the next morning. At 7:30am I wrote her a message: "Good Morning, Alex. I hope you have a lovely day." By 10:30 she had messaged back "Thanks! You too!" and the conversation started rolling. We went out that weekend and had a blast and have another date set for next weekend. I tried the approach with a new match this morning and it worked again... It seems that waiting to start conversation the morning after a match is made with something simple and friendly, (and that being the first thing they see when they open the app for the day) seems to be working like a charm (so far.) Just wanted to share this with anyone struggling with how to get a conversation rolling.

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I am in a real estate class with 60 other people. I am very attracted to a female in the class. We have made eye contact multiple times and she continues to look my direction. I assume she is single because she continues to play eye games with me. I was thinking about approaching her and introducing myself, then following with "I am pretty sure I am going to fail this exam." Then hopefully she will reply with "why" and i will proceed to explain how i cannot seem to focus because she is stealing all of my attention and i cannot keep my eyes off of her. (which honestly is kind of true.) Then i would ask her if she is single and see if she would like to go out sometime. Just curious what reddit thinks of this? should i go for it?

WANT TO STOP FEELING BAD ABOUT YOURSELF? FEELING NERVOUS OR ANXIOUS?

Probably right now you might be in a place you do not like, and you are using escapism actions to face that.

For some it will be playing video games, watching porn, eating junk food…you better than anyone know what you are doing to escape certain feelings.

The question is:

What are you using as an escape to avoid feeling bad about yourself?

To break that pattern is not easy there are no magic pills, it is a constant work in progress.

First, start thinking more about your goals. Create clear reasons to do all of them.

Pitch your perfect life, pitch the perfect version of yourself, the one where you are good enough, ready for everything.

Then start asking yourself what's the difference between the person you are right now and the person you want to be.

What are you lacking?

What goals should you accomplish in order to be that person and start writing them down.

Have measurable goals so you can check on your progress.

Then ask yourself from the person I am today how can I get to that person I imagine?

What skills do I need to get?

At the same time start by getting to know yourself better. Bring your pains into your awareness.

Why do I feel this in this moment?

Go deeper.

What is triggering me to feel in a certain state?

Why do I feel this way?

Ask yourself several times this question why, why and why?

Identify the moments you react disproportionality to the situation like feeling anxious to approach and other stress states.

Check what triggers you.

Identify the sensation and the thought that is coming up and then ask what the other situations were where you had this kind of sensations.

What was the previous time that you felt that?

And before that time when did you feel that?

Until you find when was the first time you felt the exact fear that you are feeling right now.

Try to meditate everyday:

Think about what are you escaping.

Think about the sensation that you feel, when you feel bad.

When was the previous time that you were feeling this too?

Breath into the sensations that are provoking your escapism.

Accept them and let them go.

You need to do this every day and have no expectations of when this will work and make the feeling go away. There are only benefits from doing it. Then use the following breathing exercise when you are feeling this: 6 seconds breathe in, 3 seconds hold, 6 seconds exhale doing “shhh” sound and letting go of the feeling, 3 seconds hold and again.

Hope this is helpful for you to apply during this quarantine times

Peace out

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Since velocity multiplied by time equals to distance

Let's let velocity and time approach infinity, because I want to go all the way with you.

Under what conditions do you think it's impossible to approach?

...assuming you're thinking of getting a good result.

*approaches girl in astronaut suit*

Girl: Why are you dressed like that?

Me: You take my breath away.

You see a girl and her friends sitting in the metro and you approach them
Hi, (looking at the girl and then looking over at her friends) you have the rest of your lives to get to know her, but for me, i just got these few minutes, so can i have her?

Cold approach

Any puas in china nanjing wanna do some cold approach

Guys of reddit - Have you ever successfully approached an attractive girl and gotten digits in a completely random place? Not in a bar, not at school, not at work, or any other place where people commonly converse (like a party etc). If so, what has worked best and where were you when it happened?

I've done it a time or two with success, but it takes me so far out of my comfort zone... In 2019 I want to improve in this area. I'm a believer in the whole "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take" thing, even the ridiculous blindfolded behind the back hook shots (equivalent to meeting a girl in aisle 10 of tesco

Anyway, no wrong answers here, the community as a whole can probably benefit from any information about this topic lol

Under what conditions do you think it'a impossible to approach?

...assuming you think it is possible to get a good result.

Spontaneous eye is a sign ....

...that two people should talk.

I had an epiphany today and thought I'd share with you all.
Ive come to the realization that a guy should never resist from talking to the girl he finds attractive, I mean ever. Whether it's a stranger or a chick from your social circle. You can take it as far you want but the least he must do it introduce himself. Otherwise he's not man enough. It's feminine to hold your impulse, have second thoughts and conspire within. Blast your approach anxiety and put yourself out there. That's how become more masculine, more confident and be the man.
If you don't go for what you want, some asshole will.

Don't wait for your soulmate and waste your life. Don't be choosy, Attraction should be clue enough to make a move. If the girl's personality or nature sucks you can always next her later.

Just my 2 cents for my Bros.
Cheers
bRo.

Few phrases to approach Thai people

1. Are you here alone? - คุณมาที่นี่คนเดียวหรือครับ/คะ


2. Do you want something to drink? - ดื่มอะไรไหมครับ/คะ


3. Can I have your phone number? - ขอเบอร์โทรศัพท์คุณได้ไหมครับ/คะ


4. Are you having fun? - สนุกไหมครับ/ตะ


5. Do you come here often? - คุณมาที่นี่บ่อยไหมครับ/คะ


6. Do you want to have dinner with me tonight? - คืนนี้ไปกินข้าวกันไหมครับ/คะ

7. You are very handsome/pretty. - คุณสวย/หล่อมากครับ/ค่ะ


8. Do you want to dance? - เต้นกันไหมครับ/คะ

9. Do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend? - คุณมีแฟนหรือยังครับ/คะ


10. You’re as pretty as an angel - คุณสวยเหมือนนางฟ้า

Fellow citizens, just a few minutes ago, I emerged from our debate and headed out to my car. I started to leave when Lane approached me, screaming. He ran at me, fists cocked, and I was afraid for my safety. Lane told me he had lost everything and he grabbed my gun. Fellow citizens, I hope none of you have to witness such an event.

If you let me approach, I'll impeach you with a big contra-dick-tion

We should carbon date because our half-life would approach eternity.

I'm still working on my approach, but I think I have a pretty good swing.

Approach a group of girls and say, "What's happening girls?"

I'm real shy and it took a lot of guts to approach you. May I buy you a drink and talk to you?

I know just how to approach you: I will spike you hard and fast.

How the hell do I approach such a precious dream? … You got me feeling like I'm choking on a wedding ring and I ain't even made an introduction yet or anything. (Pack It Up)

Excuse me girl, where I can buy men's stockings? I did not approach you to ask where I can buy men`s pantyhose. Actually I approached you, because you are my type of a woman. I really like you

I just came to this shopping mall to meet my friend and I saw you. I thought I would make a mistake if I did not approach you. And what are you doing at this shopping mall?

Since distance equals velocity times time, let's let velocity or time approach infinity, because I want to run all the way with you. (For the nerdy runner.)

Since distance equals velocity times time, let’s let velocity or time approach infinity, because I want to run all the way with you.

Girl quit playing so defensive; I'm just tryna approach you.